Do you exchange personal letters, steady correspondence electronic or otherwise…? Have you? (You notably excerpt correspondence.)

nemophilies:

Yes, and I admire the distant intimacy of letters. I also feel, as Franz Kafka wrote, how writing letters is actually an intercourse with ghosts and by no means just with the ghost of the addressee but also with one’s own ghost.  

Yet I write, above all, poems, and poems, too, are letters. Paul Celan said, a poem, being an instance of language, hence essentially dialogue, may be a letter in a bottle thrown out to the sea with the—surely not always strong—hope that it may somehow wash up somewhere, perhaps on the shoreline of the heart. 

So when we write letters, we write poems to ghosts. 

writemeanna:

Rainer Maria Rilke, from a letter to Lou Salomé:

Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue to exist, a wonderful living side by side can grow up, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.